4- How to be attractive
How to be attractive
To become a likable and attractive person who captivates those around him, the following things are necessary
Honesty
The attractive person is characterized by honesty, as he takes a permanent and peaceful way to tell the truth without fear, with the keenness of this character to choose words and avoid using sharp and hurtful words that negatively affect the feelings of others
The smile
accompanies the attractive personal sense of humor, which makes it a person capable of penetrating conversations and breaking the deadlock in them when needed. An attractive and influential person is keen to share a sense of humor and spread happiness with everyone, and is keen to avoid smiling or laughing for no reason in inappropriate situations
Building social relationships with others
The attractive person likes to communicate with others within a cooperative social environment framed by love and friendship, as he strives to prove his love for others by strengthening relationships with different meetings, such as inviting a beautiful dinner for example, and the attractive person is keen to study close personalities and seek Accuracy in knowing their different beliefs, ideas and needs,[3] as he seeks to end hurtful and painful relationships, lest new relationships be affected by them
Self-confidence
The attractive person is characterized by his ability to be honest with himself and to know his personal identity and what distinguishes it and its strengths or weaknesses, through faith in inner confidence,[3] where the attractive person accepts himself, which makes him confident in his footsteps walking the right path without fear of that, Because he is fully aware that this reflects positively on himself and other society, and is keen to develop himself by knowing the correct methods of talking with others, and developing his cognitive abilities and various information in various fields to expand the frameworks of communication with others in an effective manner
External attention
to the body Self-care is one of the things that an attractive and strong person possesses, as he must be an athletic person keen to follow an integrated diet,[4] in addition to standing straight with tightening shoulders and accompanying a smile on the face permanently,[1] An attractive person trusts and loves his outward appearance
as his first concerns do not fall into reaching the ideal body as much as the way to choose clothes that are suitable for the shape of the body,[2] and to ensure that they are chosen in line with society without outraging modesty,[2] while taking care to avoid wearing clothes that do not fit With personal beliefs, choosing simple and appropriate hairstyles for the outer shape, and choosing appropriate and good-looking shoes
External attention to the body
Self-care is one of the things that an attractive and strong person possesses, as he must be an athletic person keen to follow an integrated diet,[4] in addition to standing straight with tightening shoulders and accompanying a smile on the face permanently
An attractive person trusts and loves his outward appearance, as his first concerns do not fall into reaching the ideal body as much as the way to choose clothes that are suitable for the shape of the body and to ensure that they are chosen in line with society without outraging modesty,[2] while taking care to avoid wearing clothes that do not fit With personal beliefs, choosing simple and appropriate hairstyles for the outer shape, and choosing appropriate and good-looking shoes
Possessing positive energy
The attractive and influential personality is very keen to go on the right path, and focus on what drives it to develop through work and the development of various skills such as reading, advancing society and helping its members. To control negative energy by dismissing negative criticism and other discouraging things that hinder the path to success, and constant enthusiasm and reasonable impulse to achieve various tasks, whether they are individual or accomplished with others
Avoid comparisons
Each person has different attractions from the other, so it is necessary to have absolute faith that among the characteristics of the owner of the attractive personality qualities that distinguish him from others, and thus he can perform tasks that are different from the tasks that others can accomplish, and thus comparison between people is a way A dead end is not necessary to reach an ideal and attractive personality. Self-respect and adapting to its positive qualities are required to build an ideal and attractive personality
Independence
The attractive person must have absolute independence, even if he has a partner with him in life, as the attractive personality walks through a path and a private life that meets the aspirations of the past and dreams of the future, without the need for help from anyone
Kindness
Attractiveness lies in being careful when dealing with others, and using kindness and softness in that, as a gentle personality with a good spirit and good intention attracts others and makes them close
The ability to set goals
Good planning and setting desired goals are attractive personality traits that will lead to an optimal life, attracting others and attracting them to discover them, by hearing the goals and ways of thinking possessed by the owner of this personality, in addition to the ability to express enthusiasm and passion for others. What are your favorite hobbies and arts
Controlling body language
to have an attractive personality, it is necessary to develop body language, which in one way or another affects the personality itself or the arts of dealing with others, such as walking in a straight and correct manner, and good behavior with others, and avoiding attention to the surroundings when someone starts talking, and other arts Others related to the development of body language
The possibility of telling stories
It is possible to attract others through mastering the arts of storytelling and tales, as studies indicated that through several experiences that resulted in the characters who have the ability to tell stories, especially when using personal methods and methods, have had a great impact in attracting others and forming friendships. multiple in the short and long term
Altruism and generosity
The attractive person is characterized by being generous and generous, as this is shown through the spirit of cooperation with which others in the community deal, and the attractive person influences others on himself, believing that this trait leads to the development of society and raised
Attractive and influential personality
The attractive personality stems from the depths of the individual, to give him the ability to interact with society, attract others and establish friendships and different relationships with individuals,[2] and contrary to the prevailing beliefs about the inability to gain an attractive and influential personality, where a person can become attractive through
A good awareness of what an attractive personality is and its characteristics and starting to seek to develop various personal skills and abilities to achieve this, and it is also possible to seek help from many qualified and trusted institutes and centers that give different courses in self-development to obtain an attractive and lovable personality
